Child to parent abuse

What is child to parent abuse?

If you are experiencing abuse from your child, or grandchild, – whether they are a teenager or an adult – you are not alone. Child to Parent Abuse (CPA) can be frightening, isolating and overwhelming, but help and support are available.

This abuse can take many forms, including physical harm, verbal threats, emotional manipulation or financial control. Whatever the reason behind the behaviour, the responsibility lies with the person who is choosing to abuse, not the person who is being abused.

Recognising the signs

You might notice:

• Physical injuries or damage to your home
• Feeling anxious, fearful or walking on eggshells
• Being isolated from friends and family
• Financial strain caused by demands or theft
• Emotional exhaustion or depression

It can feel hard to speak out, especially if you are worried about what will happen to your child but no one deserves to feel in fear of their child and help is available. 

How to get help

In an emergency call 999

The Wokingham Domestic Abuse Service is able to provide support for child to parent abuse and can be contacted at: 

• Call: 0118 402 1921
• Email: dass@cranstoun.org.uk
• Visit the Cranstoun Wokingham Domestic Abuse Service website

You can also access support through PEGS (Parental Education Growth Support) who support parents, carers and guardians who are experiencing Child to Parent Abuse (including where the child is an adult.)