Last updated:

21st August 2025

How can I help my child get ready?

How can I help my child get ready?

  • Your child will have lots of new activities and routines to get used to when they start school. There are some things they'll need to do more independently than they might have before.
  • ​Research shows that a child's relationship with their parents is the most important factor in their development, and there's a lot you can do at home.
  • ​When your child is at home with you or another caregiver, you can practice as a family with fun activities (we've included links at the end of this resource).
  • Some of these skills take time to master, so it's good to introduce them gradually as part of your daily routine.

What if my child has additional needs?

  • If your child needs additional support to settle into Reception, make sure you share as much information as possible with their new teacher. They can work with you to find strategies to support your child.
  • Summer born children, or those speaking English as an additional language (EAL) may need more support.
  • If you know or suspect your child has suspected or confirmed special educational needs (SEND), developmental differences or delays, some of these skills may not be achievable for them at this point.
  • Early support makes a big difference – ask your child's nursery, school, health visitor, local children's centre or family hub for help.

Who can I speak to for help

All children need help from their trusted adults to feel confident and excited about starting Reception.

  • Your childminder/nursery/pre-school team or your health visitor, children's centre or family hub can help if you need more information.

The Starting Reception website has put together a list of organisations and resources to support you and your child as you get ready for school together. You'll find them on the next pages.

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