Last updated:
27th July 2023
If you have just left an abusive relationship
It is your decision whether or not you tell people that you have experienced domestic abuse. However, often when you leave a relationship, the abuse can continue or your abuser may make efforts to find you meaning that it is important you remain vigilant. It can be helpful if trusted people, such as family and friends, children’s schools and our employer are aware of the situation, provided you let them know they should not share information about your whereabouts or situation with your abuser under any circumstances as this could put you at risk.
If you are staying in the same area, try to change your previous routines as much as you can and avoid places such as shops, banks or cafes that you used to use frequently.
The Wokingham Domestic Abuse Service can help you work out how to keep safe in your new environment. You may also be able to receive help to secure your property, through the Home Refuge scheme:
- Call 0118 974 3799
- Email home.refuge@wokingham.gov.uk
The Wokingham Community Directory provides details of lots of different groups and services available in Wokingham as you start to re-build your life.
